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March 31, 2005

フリーター・ニート…親の責任

前回に続いてフリーター、ニートの話。

そいえば1990年頃から、「個性」という言葉が急に普及しだしたように思う。

自分の個性を大切に…
たったひとつの人生なんだから…
自分が好きなように生きようよ。
自分のやりたいことをしようよ。

たしか、そんなようなフレーズを90年代によく聞いた気がする(今もそうだけど(^^;)。
親も学校の先生もマスコミも、そんな感じで子供たちと接してきたんじゃないかな。
今の20代前半までの子達って、その頃小学校に入学したばかりか、入学する前だったんだ。

学生の親と話をすると「本人がやりたいことをやらせてあげたい」っていうんだよね。
そりゃ、親として子供にやりたいことをやらせてあげたいって思うのは当然のことだと思うよ。
でもね。子供が社会に出る年になってまで、親の願望を言っててどうすんだろ?
…そう思うときがあるよ。

親だったらわかっているはずでしょ?
もう何十年って、社会で働いているんだから。
社会って、フリーターだったり、ぷーしているような子をまともに受け入れてくれないってこと。
そして、そんな子が年取ってから、「ちゃんとまともに働く」って言っても採用してくれる会社なんてないってことを。
だって、自分の働いている会社でそんな子を採用してくれるか考えたらわかるでしょうに…
そして、そんな子を採用してくれる会社って、どんな会社か知っているだろうに…

そして、そのことを学生の親に話すと…
学親「もう本人も大人ですから…」
…とか
学親「本人がそれでいいっていうなら…」
…っていうんだ。
んで、そういうことを学生と話しているかと聞くと…
学親「話したことはない」
…とか
学親「本人に聞いたわけではない」
…っていうんだ。

そいえば、以前、笑ったことがあってさぁ。
ある学生の親が某中堅企業の人事部長だったんだ。
その学生は今風の金髪・ロングヘアー・大きなピアスをしている。そして就職したくないっていう。
それでその親(人事部長さん(苦笑))と学生の進路の話をしたときに…

学親「(今はフリーターになっても)まぁ、なんとかなるでしょ」
…って言うから…
僕「では、お父さんは息子さんを採用しますか?フリーターだった子を採用しますか?」
…って聞いたら…
学親「うちの会社はそんな子は絶対採用しませんよ」
…って言うんだよね。

採用担当者のあんたが絶対採用しない子が、なんで他の会社で採用してもらえるって思うんだろう。
勝手な親だよねぇ。

結局、親が責任放棄しているんだよね。
フリーターっていうのは社会にも問題があると思うけど、親の責任の方が大きいと思う。
社会に出すまでは親の責任だと思うんだけど…

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Posted by: bester plastischer chirurg | October 22, 2014 at 17:09

Cosさん、こんにちは(^^)
最近、もっぱら仕事が忙しくなっていますf^^;

>http://headlines.yahoo.co.jp/hl?a=20050405-00000175-mailo-l11

見ました。
僕は「やりたい仕事がない」ことがおかしいこととは思っていないんですよね。
それが普通かと…
でも、「だから見つかるまでアルバイト」ってことがおかしいと思っています。
「働くこと」、「税金等を払う」は義務、そして「学校を卒業したら自分の力で生きていく」…それが社会として健全だと思うから(^^)
《もちろん『したくてもできない人』に対しては社会が支援することが必要ですけどね》

Posted by: そーろん | April 06, 2005 at 09:05

基本的にはそれまでどうやって育ってきたか、育ててきたのかということなんだろうな。

それが親だけに限定していいのかどうかは判断できないけれど、たとえばCosのところ(全員が大学進学を前提とした高校)ではそういうことに対する指導はほとんど(まったくといっていいほど)やってない。

その結果が

http://headlines.yahoo.co.jp/hl?a=20050405-00000175-mailo-l11
なんだろうなぁ・・・

Posted by: Cos | April 05, 2005 at 23:39

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